President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo led the four-day commemoration of EDSA I, its 22md anniversary. Of the four icons of EDSA I, only former President Fidel V. Ramos shared the limelight with her, but apparently not in very conforming mode. Former President Corazon C. Aquino, the soul of EDSA I, has opted out – presumably to have no part in a historic hypocrisy.
Of the two others, Jaime Cardinal Sin is dead and, now senator, Juan Ponce Enrile has long dissociated himself from EDSA I. What is being commemorated every year is the triumph of the Filipino people, in the truest meaning of the word – millions massed at EDSA with millions in the provinces glued to their radio and TV sets throughout the days and nights taking part in spirit with their prayers – in winning back miraculously, without a drop of blood, from a tyrant their freedom and rights.
The 14-year Marcos dictatorship was characterized by repression and suppression of basic freedoms, rampant violation of human rights and massive graft and corruption. After seven years, the Arroyo regime – to a large degree -- is comparable to the Marcos dictatorship. There is freedom – that difference cannot be denied. But that the Filipinos have to fight for it only highlights the use of presidential powers to repress and suppress freedom and to abet human rights violations and graft and corruption.President Arroyo, extolling the ideals of EDSA I against this background, will sound hollow -- impersonating historic hypocrisy. But her doing so with flourish will not be a surprise. She and the people around her have become impervious to moral sting.
Rebuke
Ramos joined Arroyo to open the 4-day commemoration at the wreath-laying ceremony at the Libingan ng mga Bayani (Heroes’ Cemetery) last Friday, the 22nd of February. Doing a gadfly, he zeroed in his speech on greed and corruption – the pre-EDSA I sins that have come back. By the direct quotes of his speech from INQUIRER.net and Philippine Star, February 22 and 23, he was clearly chastising the Arroyo government – redeeming himself somewhat from criticisms that by his “win-win” support of Arroyo he has become irrelevant to EDSA I :“It is customary nowadays to denigrate the EDSA events – perhaps because the greed, the apathy, the corruption we brought down then are once again rearing their heads.” [Observes INQUIRER.net: Thrice he said in his speech that greed, apathy and corruption constituted a problem that the nation needed to address. Ms Arroyo showed no emotion. After Ramos’ speech, she left without delivering her prepared remarks.]
“Around the world, the Philippines included, there are new tyrannies in the form of self-serving leaders, immoderately greedy autocrats and cliques of corrupt officials that we must still confront” – [The reference to the First Family and cronies is just thinly veiled. -- ppd]“History might yet call us to come together again to offer our lives and fortunes on the altar of our civic ideals,” Ramos said, underscoring the need to “banish from our political and economic life” oligarchies, dynasties and opportunists. [INQUIRER.net interpreted this as “a call to action;” the Philippine Star, as a warning of another people revolt.]
Impervious
But Executive Secretary Eduardo Ermita and Press Secretary Ignacio Bunye, exemplifying the imperviousness and dead conscience of the Arroyo administration, dismissed the clear rebuke as something else. To Ermita, Ramos did “not necessarily” rebuke the Arroyo administration but only “reminded” it “to do something to lick corruption before it got worse.” All that Ramos said had been in the papers. Meaning – they are only rumors and lies? The government has been doing enough to fight corruption.He was not alarmed by the possibility of another “people power uprising”. Like the past crises, the present ZTE-NBN scandal lacks the elements of developing into another EDSA.Bunye saw in Ramos speech just a statement of facts about corruption.
Quoting Arroyo, he said, “we have come a long way in the fight against corruption”, a continuing “effort at all levels of the bureaucracy.” The lie is as clear as a bright sun-lit day. Ramos was deploring “immoderate greed, apathy and corruption” in the Philippines today. But they must be seeing another regime, not the Arroyo’s; another country, not the Philippines.
Insensitive
Arroyo and her minions are not only impervious to moral sting. They are insensitive to truth and ideals that have evolved from EDSA, the first and the second. That, above all, is what makes their leading the celebration of the 22nd anniversary of EDSA I a historic hypocrisy.At EDSA I, the Filipinos launched the historic people power peaceful revolution to redeem themselves from 14 years of Marcos tyranny. United in their quest for freedom and rights, a people – with prayers, not with arms – with the help of God, no doubt, triumphed. That was a historical fact and a miracle.EDSA’s eternal mandate is unmistakable: Henceforth, good governance founded on freedom and rights should be the cornerstone of national unity, peace and progress. The rulers owe it to EDSA to govern for the good of all the people, not for the promotion of their selfish collective interests disguised as common good.
To be candidly honest with history, the Aquino and Ramos governments did not fully live up to the unmistakable mandate of EDSA. When confronted with political and economic realities, they understandably compromised ideals although obviously keeping the latter to try to rein the first.In the election of 1998, the very popular Joseph Estrada was overwhelmingly elected president on the promise of a pro-poor government. That was a ruse. In two and a half years, true to the warning of Cardinal Sin, the Estrada government turned into a disaster – incompetent, immoral, corrupt, pro-cronies. The economy went into a tailspin.
At EDSA II, people power intervened – taking over the aborted impeachment – to remove Estrada from the presidency. As vice president, Arroyo became president. She had Estrada charged with plunder – as an example that the highest official of the land is not immune from criminal prosecution for corruption. EDSA I and II are one in continuity. The criminal prosecution of Estrada upheld morality and integrity in government in consonance with the ideals of EDSA and pursuant to its mandate. After six years of trial, Sandigabayan convicted Estrada of plunder. Instead of making Estrada serve his 40-year life sentence as an example that corruption does not pay, Arroyo pardoned him immediately.
The pardon dealt a death blow to the ideals of EDSA. To avoid irrelevance, Arroyo did not commemorate the 7th anniversary of EDSA II. However, that pardon also made her irrelevant to EDSA I; for, as stated above the two are one. To reiterate, Arroyo’s leading observance of the 22nd anniversary of EDSA I is historic hypocrisy.
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
EDSA Rites: Now a Historic Hypocrisy?
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Sunday, February 24, 2008
Another Pinay in American Idol!

This time, it's not about creativemind, but about a talented creative young person who made it to the finals of the famed American Idol..
After Jasmin Trias and Camile Velasco, another Filipina made it as one of the 24 finalists of American Idol.
The very pretty 20 year old Ramiele Macrowon-Malubay, a native of Miramar, Florida, who once said …
"If Jasmin can do it, I can do it!"
… freaked out after knowing she is included in the final 24. Ramiel established her attachment with music early at age 12 when she sang in her cousin’s birthday. The very talented Filipina can also play the piano as well as the guitar which is being taught to her by her sister. Besides singing and playing instruments, she also did some Polynesian Dancing since she was on the first grade.
The “Pinay American Idol” is a huge fan of Regine Velasquez. She said that she really doesn’t want to be famous but instead, represent the Asian community especially the Filipinos in this competition where the whole world is watching.
And guess what, like every Filipino; Ramiele Malubay also tried eating balot (balut)…
The weirdest thing I have ever eaten, balot (balut), It’s like a … I think it’s a duck egg. It’s cooked but there’s a baby inside. … I don’t know, I don’t eat it anymore. But it tastes good if you eat the outside part, instead of the baby inside.
Ramiele stopped nursing school for this season and promised to go back if not chosen to be the next American Idol.
Just like Renaldo Lapuz, it’s really a pleasure to see another Filipino in the limelight of this season. If you are listening Ramiele, you are an American Idol for us all and we are certain that you will outstrip the other finalists.
Break a Leg Malubay!… Mabuhay!
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Saturday, February 16, 2008
Is the ARMM a failed arrangement?
(A blog by taboan.net)
(Following was a discussion about the ARMM among bloggers, which I found interesting, hence I am featuring the same in this page. I also participated in the discussion though I used a pseudonym)
Its been over a decade since the establishment of the AUTONOMOUS REGION OF MUSLIM MINDANAO (we insist, it should be the Autonomous Region OF Muslim Mindanao instead of Autonomous Region IN Muslim Mindanao...a world of difference lies in the use of one or the other) and what does it have to show for itself?
Isn't it time to throw in the towel and call it quits for this Cory-era experiment in local governance? Haven't we wasted enough taxpayers' money for a totally dispensable layer of government bureaucracy that gobbles up nearly 90% of its annual budget for salaries alone?
What more, this regional government has proceeded to "gerrymander" provinces, municipalities and even villages to suit the whims and caprices of local warlords and political kingpins, cutting these up to create more 'salaried' positions which usually only goes to relatives, allies and/or tribe-mates.Why should there be a Muslim Mindanao in the first place when there is no room in our Constitution for a Christian Visayas or an Animist Cordilleras?Mindanao is neither Muslim nor Christian...it is FILIPINO! (Jamju Alano Rivera)
EF says on Dec. 19, 2007
Jamju it is a little bit more. Let us forget about corruption ok? Because that is a fact it seems we have to live with, like it or not. And most of the time corruption starts by BIG BUSINESS MONEY people. They want things done and no matter how, so you buy and deal! If it works with money if necessary with blood. It is like a river starting in the mountains it is small, clear and healthy for all that lives. Down under it grows stronger, deeper and get dirty by pollution and abuse.....
Is the ARMM a failed experiment? Not yet or maybe even not yet at all. Many wish and maybe pray to see this happen. So there is again room for a civil war and........... room for BIG MONEY COWBOYS who want to start coalmining, woodcut and golddigging..... Beside that is the ARMM a promisssssss, maybe one of the few that is (keeping) alive by the Manila clan euhhhhh sorry Government?! Another thing is that promises make between money-grabbers ("developers") and gov’t.-party's most of the time not hold by the developers. We know this for decades already. "As the logging companies did not fulfill the reforestation agreement as stated on the Timber License Agreement (TLA), the same thing would happen with the mining company. They could never bring back the soil of the mountains that they would destroy, flatten, and dig.""Since the arrival of the company (SUDECOR), the rivers and creeks have been silted. Slowly, the fish such as tilapia on the rivers and creeks have been disappearing.""Based on our experience, the areas that were destroyed by logging never again regained its former appearance and state. What more with mining where the mountain itself will be destroyed?""TVI Minerals Processing, Inc., an affiliate of a Canadian mining company TVI Pacific Inc., filed before the regional office of MGB-DENR two exploration permits for the exploration of gold, copper, silver, and other associated metallic mineral resources in three barangays in this town; namely Dapiwak, Dilud, and Lipawan; covering a total of 13,446 hectares".
You are right Jamju...Mindanao is neither Muslim nor Christian...it is FILIPINO! How about it is time we call all FILIPINO's to stand up and protect the wonderful rich sources we have for our grand-grandchildren. Doing so the Philippines have what is about nowhere in the world A BEAUTIFUL NATURE. People all over the world will come to see that. Even today many rich country's spend billions of dollars to restore the "green area's" in their country, realizing they are going much too far in developing.........
Let us all work together and see the ARMM stays the way it is as a promised land!
Michael says on Dec. 20, 2007
hi ef... can you blog on this? I mean about what’s happening here... MOST of us doesn’t even know this is happening. It’s a pity if we can’t have access to this kind of information..
EF says on Dec. 20, 2007
Dear friend Michael: I only give 4 quotes on lifetime issues right here in Mindanao. If I want to do so, i can give you 4,000 right now. Official reports both from Manila as local officials. And i think we have to listen more and more to local authorities if, IF, we really wanna know the truth. And NO i can not give all sources as it is dangerous to do so. But read the information given by some close friends of you Michael....... it is heartbreaking but inspiring. Don’t get sad my friends.... HAPPY DAYS ARE HERE AGAIN..........
Jamju Alano Rivera says on Dec. 21, 2007
The ARMM isn't a promise. Far from it. It’s a concession. Much like the mining and logging concessions which you believe should not fall in the hands of what you so succinctly called "BIG MONEY COWBOYS"...the ARMM is the biggest concession ever given to a single corporate entity...the MNLF!The Philippine Government under Marcos initially agreed (without our consent, I must add) to give away 13 provinces to the MNLF as a part of their autonomous Bangsamoro Homeland in the infamous Tripoli Agreement... and very, very soon...the MILF as well will be given yet another concession by our Imperial Government in Manila in the form of the euphemistically termed "expanded indigenous peoples' homeland" which will - AGAIN - include areas of Mindanao, the populations of whom are vehemently against any form of concession to these Muslim Secessionist groups.
After a succession of openly corrupt regional governors (give me one name...ONE NAME...among them that isn't tainted with corruption!)... the ARMM remains today as the government's biggest dole-out! Money is funneled into ARMM and is immediately dissipated, first through a legal maneuver which ensures that the entire family of a local warlord receives a monthly "pension" from the national government...I say pension because these people aren't doing anything at all to earn the money that they are practically stealing under our very own noses.
Corruption is endemic throughout the Philippines, I admit. The ARMM, however, tops everyone else in its venality. Be it in public works, distribution of funds, ghost employee payrolls, unpaid GSIS payments, even elections! You name it, the ARMM is the worst at it. And nobody's doing anything about it.
We advocate the immediate abolition of the ARMM and the nullification of all its acts since its inception. It is an anomaly... a cancerous growth that needs to be excised at the soonest. Its an utter waste of taxpayers' money. It is a welfare society that practices "reverse discrimination"...and yeah...you can tell this to all the Ampatuans and their lordlings reigning over the ARMM right now... we will move heaven and earth to return Mindanao to its people... the real people of Mindanao... and by this I definitely say ALL MINDANAOANS...and not the bogus Bangsamoro ONLY!!!Mindanao is neither Muslim nor Christian...it is FILIPINO!
EF says on Dec. 22, 2007
Simple question: have you any proof, any written or spoken testifying or justification of all you write here? Yes, the ARMM is far from perfect but, as you stated here yourself dear Jamju, corruption is endemic throughout the Philippines. Our beloved Government including Manila is even killing, murdering, abusing and more of these "fine" things as a rapport of the European Union bring out to the world. And about corruption, please Jamju.... "give me one name...ONE NAME...among them that isn't tainted with corruption"!!!! And how about you and me??? Are we not also, now and then, more or less, eating something from the same bread of corruption?? Sometimes we like or not??
I work over all the major islands and I can tell you I have not yet find any gov’t. service that is NOT corrupt or not stealing right under my nose! Or at least try to do so even abusing the Law!!And to be very clear i think The Philippine Government in Manila makes big mistakes with all these "autonomous area's"!Do i love the ARMM? No! Do i like the idea of Bangsamoro Homeland? No! Do i like MNLF? No! And I don’t have to like them nor love them. But I well have to respect them as they are a given fact in our country. And I only ask you not to speak in hate or untrue facts as long you have not given any proof no matter from what side. Up till now I have seen more help and more cooperation activities from Muslim groups in many Christian projects, than in any other way.
So let us try to find some place in our hearts also for the "sinners" among us.......... HAPPY DAYS ARE HERE AGAIN... merry Christmas and a blessed, healthy and wonderful 2008 to you and your beloved ones. Please walk in the Light and build on The ROCK!
Jamju Alano Rivera Dec. 25, 2007
You ask: "have you any proof, any written or spoken testifying or justification of all you write here?"Sir, I live in Basilan. I'm a resident of Isabela City...which means I am fortunate enough to live in a place that is not within the ARMM, but close enough to know what sorry things are happening on the other side of the fence. Our Congressman who just died from the bomb knew more than most of us what corruption meant...apparently schooled under the strict tutelage of his Ampatuan overlords.
You want proof? Look around you and you will see all the proof you will need staring back at your face...a stark reminder of corruption that is endemic and tolerated nationwide, but institutionalized and established in the ARMM! I'm not saying this out of hate. No! I'm saying this as a matter of fact.Just very recently, teachers from Sulu, Tawi-Tawi and, yes, Basilan...met with Gov. Zaldy himself, in Zamboanga City...why? Most of these valiant teachers have not been given their salaries for the last...take this...EIGHT MONTHS!!! While everybody else OUTSIDE OF ARMM got theirs on time, these teachers got nothing! For eight long months. Ask GSIS...how much of what should have been remitted actually was...if any at all were! Check out the government-funded projects...if you can call them that! Or maybe the ARMM has done wondrously well enough to lift its population from abject poverty and into the welcoming arms of the struggling middle class? Has it? It has done nothing but PROMISE! Yes...the promise of the ARMM, much like the rest of ARMM is based on one humungous LIE. And need I reiterate the fact that among all the provinces of the Philippines, the ones most notorious for election-related transgressions are, by an exceptionally phenomenal margin, located within the borders of this ARMM. Can anyone...yes, even the COMELEC...contest these claims? You want more proof?
You also said: "Yes, the ARMM is far from perfect but, as you stated here yourself dear Jamju, corruption is endemic throughout the Philippines. Our beloved Government including Manila is even killing, murdering, abusing and more of these "fine" things as a rapport of the European Union bring out to the world. And about corruption, please Jamju.... "give me one name...ONE NAME...among them that isn't tainted with corruption"!!!! And how about you and me??? Are we not also, now and than, more or less, eating something from the same bread of corruption?? Sometimes we like or not?? I work over all the mayor islands and i can tell you i have not yet find any gov. service that is NOT corrupt or not stealing right under my nose! Or at least try to do so even abusing the Law!!
"Which is precisely what I mean, sir...the corruption is way too entrenched and too institutionalized that we have got to do something about it...not tolerate it...but really do something to solve it once and for all. Defeatism in this regard means we should all but surrender our hopes for a better future for our children. That, we cannot accept. The people, we believe, will always react to the kind of system that either allows or constricts them from doing certain things...be it benevolent or malfeasant. The system MUST BE CHANGED COMPLETELY. The system that is perpetuated by the ARMM, most especially, MUST BE DESTROYED! NOW! We do not believe that people are corrupt by nature...but a system that makes corruption "LEGAL" will inure even the most upright individual and "permit" certain acts of ignominy to be committed...as is the case in the ARMM!
You added: "And to be very clear I think The Philippine Government in Manila makes big mistakes with all these "autonomous area's"!Do I love the ARMM? No! Do I like the idea of Bangsamoro Homeland? No! Do I like MNLF? No! And I don’t have to like them nor love them. But I well have to respect them as they are a given fact in our country. And I only ask you not to speak in hate or untrue facts as long you have not given any proof no matter from what side."With this, we obviously agree tacitly...it is wrong to put up "autonomous areas" just as it is patently wrong to recognize rebel groups as though they were legal plenipotentiaries in an international conference of equally sovereign states! We do not believe that any of the negotiated treaties with the MNLF, MILF or whatever other name for a secessionist group they will come up with...would solve the question of PEACE FOR MINDANAO in its finality. These are stop-gap measures, band-aid diplomacy at best...which does not aim to solve the underlying problems...but only wishes to stave off the inevitable from happening at this time...for fear of what? An international backlash from, say, the OIC? The EU? The UN? So who died, anyway, and gave them the power to decide over the fate of 14 million Mindanaoans from the comfort of their armchairs in airconditioned conference halls several thousand miles away?
We believe that true PEACE FOR MINDANAO can only be made by the ones most affected by this decades-old conflict...doesn't matter if they're Muslim or Christian...for as long as they are FILIPINOS LIVING IN MINDANAO...!
You likewise said: "Up till now a have seen more help and more cooperation activities from Muslims(groups) in many (Christian) projects, than in any other way."Do you mean, by this claim...Christians have not been very cooperative and helpful with projects for Christians, and that Muslims are more ready to lend a hand in your endeavours? Or did I get it all wrong? Didn't quite get your stand here, sir...because, if this is your claim...then we applaud these Muslim groups for helping out. As we have been saying all along, it doesn't matter if it’s a Muslim or a Christian who does the job...what matters most is that THE JOB IS DONE! We never said that Mindanao's future lies in it's being Christian. No! Far from it...we have always contended that Mindanao should neither be Muslim nor Christian...it should, however, always BE FILIPINO! And there is definitely no way that anyone can convince us otherwise!
FInally, you said: "So let us try to find some place in our hearts also for the "sinners" among us.......... HAPPY DAYS ARE HERE AGAIN... merry Christmas and a blessed, healthy and wonderful 2008 to you and your beloved ones. Please walk in the Light and build on The ROCK!"
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL! Merry Christmas to all Christians and Happy Hariraya to all Muslims! We do hope that 2008 brings about great changes not only in the way things are done around here...but that changes be felt from the heart of every FILIPINO, Muslim and Christian!
BUT...on whether we will ever be able to find a place in our hearts also for the "sinners" among us...or not? Sorry, we believe that this is simply OUT OF THE QUESTION.
We do not wish to be contrarian, and we applaud EF for taking the time to rebut our statements made here...but we do hope that readers would understand where we're coming from on this.
WE ADVOCATE:
(1) THE IMMEDIATE ABOLITION OF ARMM...AND THE NULLIFICATION OF ALL ACTS OF ARMM...
(2) THE NULLIFICATION OF ALL TREATIES WITH MINDANAO SECESSIONIST GROUPS...AND THE NON-RECOGNITION OF THE BANGSA MORO HOMELAND
(3) THE CESSION OF ALL "TALKS" WITH THESE ARMED GROUPS...
(4) THE FULL ENFORCEMENT OF THE LAWS OF THE REPUBLIC OF THE PHILIPPINES AS LAID OUT IN OUR CONSTITUTION...AND THE FULL INTEGRATION OF ALL THE PEOPLES OF MINDANAO INTO FILIPINO SOCIETY...
Until these things are fully dealt with and implemented...MINDANAO WILL KNOW NO PEACE!!!
Tambo Lontok says on Dec. 31, 2007
Yes, from all that I've read about ARMM, corruption and nepotism are as bad as they are in the rest of the Philippines. It would be nice to have one united nation but I would not call it Pilipinas (after King Philip II), I'd call it Bansa Laya or something more native to our language. That's one.Secondly, Muslims in Mindanao have a separate history starting with the 14th Century arrival of Arab merchants and thus the spread of Islam in Mindanao. They and the native tribes made up the majority of the people of Mindanao until the early 20th Century when an exodus of Christian Filipinos settled in Mindanao.
Lastly, even if we wanted to have one united Mindanao, it is likely that Muslims will want to stick to their value system as Christians will want to stick to theirs.I want to see a secular Mindanao where autonomous regions will have a secular government because only such government can guarantee religious freedom to every single citizen of that autonomous region.As for corruption, the entire government, politicians and bureaucrats alike, from Aparri to Jolo , are corrupt except for a few. Whether Christians or Muslims , many are thieves and work only for their families and relatives instead of all their constituents.
I agree with you that the bloated and corrupt bureaucracy is a hindrance to sustainable development. It needs to be reduced by 50 percent -- AT LEAST.
Maxim says on Feb. 16, 2008
Dear Friends (EF, Jamju, Tambo):
I like the way you discuss the good and bad sides of ARMM, whether you talk about its political leaders and some followers, the dispensable bureaucratic layer i.e. the ARMM, and how corruption seems to be orchestrated from Manila down South.
Regardless of the amount of proofs there are, I believe that all that you said are true and correct. However, it was not by design that the ARMM shall have to be what it is today; I still believe in the good intentions of the people behind its creation. The ARMM was a by-product of legitimate negotiations entered into by and between the GRP and the MNLF witnessed and hailed by the OIC as a better option than a shooting war. It's a pity that it has fallen into the wrong hands - those of the circus puppets of the Manila government who not only tolerate everything but manipulate the way these puppets sway their hands and trample their feet.
We complain at the bitterness of the fruit but we forget that it just came from the poison tree. The fruit i.e. the ARMM and the poison tree i.e. Malacanang. Unless we cut the roots of this poison tree it will continue to bear bitter fruits. (Remember that GMA loves the Ampatuans so much because they were the only political clan that has delivered the 12-0 mandate from Malacanang; also made her sweep Maguindanao in the Presidential election!)
Rather than argue with each other, there is something better that we can do. I do not say, however, that all that you said ought not to be said at all. They were all very strikingly informative and plausibly awful facts!
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Sunday, February 10, 2008
The First Time!
The first time I took her hand

It trembled faintly
Yet noticeably
Like a wild bird's fluttering heart
In the hand of its captor
The first time I kissed her
And when I touched her skin
Through my fingers
The first time we made love
For us both
And in our passionate embraces
Our senses were over loaded
The first time became many times
Though we are older now
The passion is stronger
Our senses fine-tuned
We are one soul mates
We share the same shadow
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Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Seven Dating Ups and Downs
Dating is a process a lot of us really can live without. It's an emotional rollercoaster that can drive one to drink ten bottles of beer from the back of
your refrigerator.
Now, because February is ‘love’ month, it might help some to understand the few significant intricacies of the dating game. Not a few went home without really enjoying the date they had for the night or evening because they simply lack the way it should have been handled before it ever happened.
Here's a list of the top ups and downs of dating -- and how to feel better about them:
1. Stop the mental post-date recap abuse. You went out with somebody with whom you thought you had a connection, and it turns out you didn't. So now you're going to mentally torture yourself for the next four days trying to figure out what you said wrong. You'll even torture all your friends asking them what you could have done differently. The post-date recap is a form of mental torture. You will never know what that other person is thinking unless they call you. If they don't call, it really does mean that he or she is just not that into you (which is about the only good advice from that ridiculously stupid book I read).
2. We made out in the parking lot and they never called again. Making out is fun! You needed it. They needed it. Don't beat yourself up that you did it, just realize you did it. Be okay with it. It was a great date. You were in the moment, and you experienced something that you wanted to do.
3. I texted them the next morning and said, "I had a great time last night," and they never texted back. So what? You had a great time last night. So did they. They just woke up, and their post-date recap was different from yours. They probably had a good time, but when they thought about it, the chemistry and the "it" factor wasn't there. It's not about you. At least you were honest. So you did all you can do.
4. Should I have said something different in my voicemail message? You left a voicemail message and now you're replaying it in your head a thousand times. "Should I have said 'Last night was fun' with more enthusiasm? Is that why she's not calling me back?" When it comes to voicemail messages, the shorter the better. From an old sales technique, I always prefer to say, "Last night was fun. I have something really funny to share with you the next time we speak." That's it -- it creates a little bit of intrigue, a little bit of mystery and no mental torture.
5. Who cares what they think? You left the above voicemail message without knowing if you'll ever see them again, and they don't call you back. You start to think, "Now they know that I like them, and they don't like me." So what? Is it better to just sit there and hope and pray they call? I always believe in being honest. You've got to do what feels right for you.
6. Stop giving your power away to one person. If a two-hour date can cause you to give away all your power and confidence, then you need to learn to embrace yourself and love yourself more. This is just one person you went out with for two hours. They don't know what an amazing person you are. The only thing they know is the person they sat across from at the table. Whether they choose to hang with you again isn't the issue. The issue is that one person does not determine your worthiness. You've got to toughen your skin. Rejection is what dating is all about; you can't take it personally. If I go out with someone and I have a great time but they never want to see me again, I'm still a great person the next day. 
7. In order to feel better about dating, you need to think abundance. Just because you think you like somebody and they don't call you back, this is not the last person in the world you're going to meet. In order to be a successful dater, you need to practice abundance. The power of abundance is training your mind to realize that if it doesn't work out with one person (or 10 people), there are plenty of other people out there who do want to hang out with a fantastic person like you.
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Saturday, February 02, 2008
My Diary in Japan (Jan. 16-27, 2004)
Introduction
Japan was known in ancient times as NIPPON, meaning the “Source of the Sun”. This explains the red disc on the Japanese Flag which represents the rising sun.
For many centuries Emperors have been the heads of states in Japan. Until the 1900s, Japanese Emperors claimed to be divine, believing they were descended from the gods. The amount of power held by the Emperor varied greatly from one era to another. Today, the Emperor’s role and duties are ceremonial only. The government of the nation is carried out by a democratic parliament called the “Diet”.
Modern Japan is world-famous for its powerful business corporations and advance electronic technology. However, Japan is still a land where ancient customs and traditions are held in the highest esteem. In the workplace, the Japanese are noted for maintaining a high level of ethical standards and professionalism.
Following is an account of my diary in Japan:
Jan. 16
We reported to JICA, Makati City for a briefing/orientation. Mr. Osamu, Vice President of JICA, Philippine Office, briefed us about existing JICA projects in the Philippines and other parts of Asia. Ms. Grace Reyes showed us some video clippings of selected places that we have to visit in Japan. We were told that, this time, it is coldest in Japan because it is the peak of the winter season.
We were given a shot of anti-flu vaccine because Japan is a flu-free country. The vaccine costs more than a thousand pesos but everything was pre-paid by JICA.
I think we over-reacted by bringing with us several thick winter overcoats which we were forced to leave behind, on our way back home, to reduce the weight of our baggage because a kilo of excess baggage would cost us ¥1,600 (P800).
Jan. 17-18
I bought all the required provisions such as: thermal clothing, winter gloves, lip bum, overcoats and ties, etc. I had my calling cards printed and bought some gift items.
Jan. 19
I made sure that I was at the NAIA 3 hours before boarding time. Minutes before boarding, I called up my wife Jasmin, my daughter Johannie and sent text messages to the three boys (Datu, Jim and Chip). Bai jokingly warned me to avoid a Japayokie (I think mothers should train their daughters to do the jealousy bits for them because this is quite more effective).
We boarded the plane (Japan Airlines) at 3:15 p.m. I really like the Japanese foods and wine served on board. I have particular fondness for “saisake” (rice wine). We arrived at Narita Airport in Tokyo at 7:45 p.m. or exactly 4 hours and 30 minutes flying time. We had to adjust our timepieces one hour earlier because the time difference between Tokyo and Manila is 1 hour.
We were met by a JICA Staff at the airport; after a short briefing and checking of travel papers, we took the bus to the Tokyo City Air Terminal (TCAT) which is more than 100 kms. away. At TCAT, we were met by another JICA Staff.
Boarding 3 limousine vehicles, we proceeded to our hotel - KEIO Plaza Hotel. (I jokingly told Nash that the name of the hotel tells us what people do inside, hehehe!).
Jan. 20
Ms. Ayako Nakano, our guide and interpreter for the whole duration of the study tour, fetched us at 9:00 a.m. and brought us to JICA Headquarters, the Tokyo International Center (TIC). We were told that about 7,000 people attend JICA-sponsored activities every year.
Ms. Nakasato gave us short briefings, checked our papers and told us to fill up some personal data forms.
A Japanese doctor checked our blood pressure and body temperatures. The lady doctor was surprised to find me the coldest participant at 35.6oC. She advised me to drift in warm water for 3-5 minutes upon my return to the hotel.
We were given medical cards that we can use in any hospital in Japan.
A JICA staff briefed us about the City of Tokyo. He told us, among others, about the following: the Tokyo Metropolitan Building, which is 300M high, is the tallest building in Japan; the Shinjuku (where our hotel is located) is the busiest commercial district in Tokyo; Akihabara is the home of cheap electronic gadgets and appliances; Asakusa is the biggest flea market; the Imperial Palace is not open to the public, not even to Japanese people; Emperor Hirohito is sickly, that is why the government declared a no smoking zone within 1 km. around the palace as a matter of respect and reverence for the sick Emperor.
Mr. Matsunaga, Executive Director of JICA met us at 12:30 p.m. and briefed us on what to expect for the next several days until the 27th of January. He emphasized, among others, that the primary objective of the study tour is to finalize the JICA Governance Support for ARMM and to learn from governance experience in Japan.
Jan. 21
Ms. Nakano fetched us from KEIO Plaza Hotel at 9:30 a.m.;
Mr. Matsuoka, Vice Pres. of JICA, sponsored our lunch; he was an upbeat executive with so much to tell about Japan-Philippine cooperation experience.
We met Dr. Alex Brillantes of U.P. He is in Japan as visiting Professor of Kobe University;
We had a tele-conference between JICA-Tokyo and JICA-Manila from 1:30 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.;
At past 6 p.m., Ms. Kobayashi of the Kokusai Service Agency briefed us on the things that we have to do regarding our return flight to Manila.
At 8:00 in the evening we went shopping around Shinjuku commercial district in Tokyo; I bought a digital camera, wrist watch for my wife, FM Card Radio for my daughter, novelty items for my 3 boys, and some gifts for friends and relatives at home; then, Nash and I went to a restaurant to partake our favorite Japanese food, Japanese green noodles, a soup (I forgot the name) and green tea.
Jan. 22
Ms. Nakano fetched us from Keio Hotel at 9:30 a.m.;
We took a bus to the JICA International Cooperation Office to attend a program;
Atty. Salmani, head of our delegation, gave an opening remarks;
Prof. Katayama of Kobe University and Prof. Temario Rivera of the International Christian University presented the general outline of politics, economy and governance in Mindanao, Philippines;
Dr. Amy Malbun, member of our delegation, presented some of the programs on education in the ARMM.
Ms. Mashako Ishii gave response/remarks to the presentation of Dr. Amy Malbun; she recommended for peace education as a means of confidence-building for the tri-people of Mindanao (Muslims, Christians, Lumads); she also recommended for active inter-phase between the Madaris and the public school system in the ARMM.
Dr. Lampa Pandi, member of our delegation, presented the health programs in the ARMM; Mr. Takahiro Nakashima from the Asia Health Institute, an NGO based in Japan, made remarks and recommendations on the presentation.
Jan. 23
Ms. Nakano fetched us from Keio Hotel at 9:30 a.m.;
But before our departure, Nash and I had a picture-taking outside; we did not stay long outside the hotel because it was too cold; the temperature was 8ºC.
At the Tokyo International Center, Ms. Tanaka, Evaluator of the Cebu SEED Project, presented the project’s activities and accomplishments.
In the afternoon at around 2:00 p.m., we went to the Asakusa (flea market) to buy more gift items; a prominent Japanese Temple is located nearby; I bought a Japanese kimono, shoulder bags, several handkerchiefs, neckties, towels and rice cookies.
Jan. 24
We checked out from Keio Plaza Hotel at 7:00 a.m.; while waiting for a ride, I enjoyed the snow falling like loose cotton balls, walked outside and took pictures.
We took the bus to the Tokyo Station at 8:50 a.m.;
We took the train to Kyoto at 10:06 a.m. and arrived at the Kyoto Station at 12:40 p.m. On board the train was a wonderful experience; the ride was smooth, fast and silent;
Along the way, we saw urban and rural Japan; except for high-rise congested structures that characterize urban Japan, there was not much difference with the rural areas in terms of cleanliness and orderliness; rural Japan is characterized by rampant small villages orderly arranged depicting Japanese discipline all throughout; one can readily tell modern farming practices by the sight of farm machineries, farm structures and on-site farm factories.
At 1:40 p.m., we went on guided tour to visit 3 famous temples in Kyoto; Kyoto was the former capital of Japan; it is the third largest city next to Tokyo and Yokohama; now, it is famous for its historical sites and tourist attractions; we visited the Hai Gian Temple, a Budhhist Temple, and a Taoist Temple; In all these places, the Japanese Garden is a stand-out attraction.
At about 6 p.m., we took the bus to Osaka, arrived at 7 p.m. and proceeded to check-in at Hotel Granvia; it was in Osaka that the famous World Expo was held in 1975.
After dinner, Nash and I went to a coffee shop and spent about 1 hour sharing some experiences and observations; we moved on to watch a live band performance at the Osaka sub-way station.
Jan. 25
We checked out from Granvia Hotel at 8:45 a.m. and took the bus to the famous Osaka Castle;
We had picture-taking around and inside the castle, but we had to respect areas where picture-taking was not allowed; It was a very beautiful castle; I bought a postcard and booklet about the castle; while inside the castle premises, it was incidental that the national Japanese Marathon for Women passed by; the winner will compete in the world Olympics games;
In the afternoon, we went to the Osaka Aquarium; it was a wonderful experience seeing samples of the undersea treasures and creatures of the world;
After we had lunch, we took our famous ride at the TENPOZAN, the biggest ferris wheel in the world; it has a diameter of 112 m. and carries 60 cabs.
At 3:30 p.m. we went to Kobe University to pay courtesy visits to Dean Katayama and Dr. Alex Brillantes; we came to know 3 Filipina students (Gina, Marie and Leah) taking up doctorate degrees; all of them are members of the UP faculty; we went back to Hyogo at past 5 p.m.
We checked in at the JICA International Cooperation Center at Hyogo; we met two Filipino compatriots, Mr. Mariano Rivera Jr. of DOH, Manila and Mr. Asterio Gallardo Jr. of the Philippine Ports Authority based in Davao City; they were also attending a JICA-sponsored training.
Jan. 26
At 8:45 a.m., we checked out of JICA-Hyogo; Nash and I had some picture-taking outside while waiting for the bus; I was really enjoying the cool sunny morning and the beautiful sceneries around.
We took the bus to Kakogawa Plaza and arrived at past 11 a.m.; we were met by Mr. Narao Okada, Executive Director General of the Higashi-Harima District Administration Office; we were presented with the concepts and approaches used in the establishment and operation of the district administration office; then, the strategies and approaches used in the establishment of the Inamino Tameiki Project (water impounding project) was discussed to us showcasing government-community partnership in project implementation, management and operation;
We left at about 3 p.m. and went back to Osaka; we checked in at Rihga Royal Hotel, and had dinner outside; as usual my favorite hang-out, with Nash, is the subway station where we can have coffee and watch a live band performance before retiring to our hotel.
Jan. 27
For the first time we woke up earlier than usual; at 6:30 a.m. most of us were already at the hotel lobby, except that we had to wait for Asec. Kader, as usual. We left the hotel by taxi to New Honkyu Hotel where we had to take a limousine bus to the Kansai International Airport. It was almost 1-hour ride to the Airport which is located more than 3 kms. from the seashore; it was an amazing structure in the middle of the sea;
After alighting from the limousine bus, we took our individual carts, as everyone of us was dangling with baggage; at the entrance we were accommodated by courteous and beautiful airport staff;
It was still more than 2 hours before boarding time, and so, I spent the time going around the airport, mostly at the duty free shop, trying to consume every yen that I have; went to a coffee shop where I met a Chinese lady by the name of Chien Li Huang; she was going back to Guangzou province after a 2-week packaged tour in Japan; then Nash took a picture of me with two beautiful Thai flight stewardesses;
Before boarding, we had to take a mini-cable car to the passenger tube; we boarded the plane (Thai Airways) at 10 a.m. Again, I enjoyed a sumptuous Japanese food on board, but this time, I did not drink saisake. I took Ballantines (recommended by Nash); it was a superb wine with its smooth mellow taste. I think I had drank enough and so I had a good sleep on board the plane; when I woke up it was 30 minutes befor
e landing time, and so, I took advantage of the few minutes left to buy some t-shirts and perfume (on board the plane) to dispose a few dollars.
We landed at NAIA at about 2 p.m.; the Japan experience was a wonderful one; something that I would cherish so much; I would not forget the kind and courteous Japanese people that we met; thanks to JICA, our benefactor; I learned a lot of good things from Japan and its people; I think the study tour was worth every cent spent.
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Thursday, January 17, 2008
The White Handkerchief
Short Story
Maugan P. Mosaid, Ph.D.
I was raised in the remotest barrio I can imagine and consider that was circa 1960s. I recall that a team of government workers would often surprise us with their house to house spraying of DDT because malaria was rampant in almost everywhere. That was the time when the forest and cogonal grassland were just nearby. My mother would ask from them a handful of DDT in exchange for a half-dozen eggs that were just taken from the corner. My father used this DDT to spray our tobacco farm because it was found out to be very effective against all kinds of insects, both harmful and useful. Nobody would tell us then that DDT was not ideal for such use because of its harmful effect even to humans when inhaled directly.
Our house was just a box-type enclosure of carefully woven coconut leaves from the walls to the roof and what could be a better flooring than Mother earth herself. I enjoyed running around and playing with children of my age in the neighborhood. Speaking of neighbors, the nearest house is more or less 300 meters away. And so if there were more than ten of us playmates, you would imagine that we came from places within a span of more or less 3 square kilometers.
It was not until 1970s that the Muslims of Mindanao learned to live in clusters in the barrios. We were just happy carefree children who run around without a slipper and most of the time in one piece clothing. At the end of the day, nobody would tell us to wash or clean ourselves before going to sleep. Such was simple living at its simplest. I never heard about toothbrush, toothpaste, bath soap, much more, perfume. All I know was that was the best part of the earth for me. What was simply innocence that time is already the worst form of ignorance to children of today. But I love my innocence. I beg to disagree if you would call that ignorance. Anyway, I know everything that comes to my senses that time. The only thing I cannot imagine was going to school because I have no knowledge of how far was the nearest school.
Then finally a primary school was opened in my barrio in 1960. Next to the Mosque, it was the most beautiful building made of woven bamboo slacks for its walls and galvanized iron for its roof. Inside were wooden benches attached to one another. When one of us is restlessly naughty, the whole group is affected. I recall that I was just barely qualified to enroll in grade one because I could hardly reach my left ear using my right hand extended over my head. (I found out many years later, using the same technique to my son, that it was a reliable way of determining a child’s schooling age). They say that I was the brightest pupil in grade one. By the middle of the year I was promoted to grade two because I can read with understanding the English textbook Pepe and Pilar. And so, I graduated from the primary school in only three years. Yes, there was a primary graduation that time.
After primary graduation, my parents enrolled me to the public central elementary school in the poblacion. For the first time, I saw the so-called outside civilization where houses were so close to one other. I have tasted a cold sweet tasting bottled liquid which they call lemonade. Everything was so new to me. I thought from the first day of class that I will be out of place as I imagined that most of them were brighter than me. By the end of the year, I was among the top five in class, modesty aside. I long to go home during weekends because I miss my playmates and the fresh barrio breeze. I had to hike about four kilometers from the last point where the jeep could bring us from the poblacion to reach our barrio. But I realize that I was luckier than my playmates for having enrolled further into the elementary grades.
Months and years passed and everything around me seems to be moving and changing fast. I was also learning fast to adapt to the so-called civilization. When I was in first year high school in a private sectarian school I could enroll on my own. I don’t want my mother to go with me everytime I enroll. I wanted to prove to her that I was maturing fast to adolescence. And so I believe that I could already manage to do things on my own. I felt that I was already a young man even in my third year in high school. I had learned to feel ‘crush’ everytime I see my beautiful girl. I wanted to court her but I had a problem. I feared the moment that she would turn me down because I was a Moro. I also feared the day that my mother would know that I was courting a ‘kafir ’ (infidel, as they call a non-Muslim) because it was taboo that time. Until late 1960s, marriage between individuals of different religious affiliations was not tolerated by the Muslim culture in our place.
But I was seriously falling for my beautiful girl. And so I wanted to test the waters, so to speak. I wanted to find out her initial reactions. I gathered all the energy that I could muster but my knees would tremble and no words would come out of my mouth. This must be the real love at first sight! After several attempts, it was all the same. There was only one thing that I was progressing through in terms of level of confidence and that I was beginning to feel that the feeling was mutual. She would no longer turn down my invitations for snacks at the canteen. And so we were talking to each other on topics of mutual interest except ‘love’.
Finally, I said the words and expressed how much I love her and she turned around without saying anything. Until we went out of the refreshment parlor she refused to say a word and would not look at me. I must have offended her, so I thought. I don’t want to ask for forgiveness neither would I follow up what I said earlier. Maybe it was just good that I had expressed what I feel for her. Maybe time will decide in my favor. In school, she would try everything to avoid me. I wanted to look at her; she’s the apple of my eyes. I would try anything to corner her until I did finally cornered her. Without much ado, I asked for forgiveness and went back to my old trick to regain her confidence. Several months passed and I was steadfast at winning her heart. “There is no rocky hill to a man with an iron will”. These words from an old sage were all I need to keep me going.
True enough, time was on my side. In our fourth year in high school, it was different altogether. Did the summer vacation made us long for each other? May be so. At last, my diligence finally paid for me. Several weeks before graduation, I heard from her what I had always longed for - a verbal confirmation that the feeling of love was mutual. And so I heard the sweetest words: “yes, I love you too!” What a beautiful world it was for the two of us.
And then, it was graduation day. More than the apprehension that her parents and mine would know about our relationship, and the consequences that would follow, the fear of being separated from each other was a dreadful scenario I would not even dare to imagine. She knew that I could not continue to college and I knew that she would be studying in Manila.
The following day, immediately after graduation, I looked for her. I gathered all the guts I could muster to go to their house. That was the only place I would certainly find her. And so I went to their house and she met me at the gate. We agreed not to mention anything about our relationship so her parents would not sense anything. We were cracking jokes so we would feel happy and comfortable but the fear of being separated was enormous. What else can we do? Finally, we agreed to give each other small tokens that would keep us reminded of each other. We agreed to exchange white handkerchiefs.
In school white handkerchief was a must for every student. It was checked every morning during flag ceremony. We were together the whole day and really enjoyed each other’s company. As the sun was setting, she begged that I would dine with them in the house, which her mother duly seconded. I had already lunched with them and I felt that it was already too much to stay until dinnertime. And so I begged off to just go, saying, that I still had to go home to the barrio, even if I knew that it was no longer possible. The last jeep must have left at 5:00 p.m. We promised to write each other – something that I would deligently check at the Post Office on market days (Thursdays).
In the beginning, we used to exchange letters. She was doing good in her studies in Manila while I was back to my old ways in the barrio: playing with playmates, pasturing the work animals, gathering firewood and helping in our tobacco and corn farms.
Months and years passed and this time, I would no longer received letters from her. In short, our communication was cut. I deserved this, I sighed to myself. I was not going to school; there are boys in Manila who are certainly more good-looking (and good smelling too!); what will she get from me?
Then the armed conflict erupted in Central Mindanao in the early 1970s and the Moro National Liberation Front (MNLF) was actively recruiting young and able-bodied boys to join its armed forces. For six years, I had my stint with the MNLF, not because it was my choice, but because I had no choice. My barrio was a favorite battleground between the government and MNLF forces. In 1976 the Tripoli Agreement was signed between the government and the MNLF. For a time there was a lull in the fighting as the formal ceasefire agreement was implemented on the ground several months after.
I felt that this time was a golden opportunity for me to enroll in college but it was not until three years later that I was able to go to college. I asked for some money from my mother so I could finally enroll. She said that she didn’t have any but there was money being saved for the hospitalization of my younger sister. She was having on-and-off fever for several weeks already. I asked my younger sister if I could take two hundred pesos from her savings so I could go and enroll. As a younger sister, she acceded to my request.
I enrolled in the nearest state university where I could possibly be taken as a ‘grant-in-aid’ scholar, a special program of the University for poor and deserving students from the cultural minorities. Three days after, I went back home to see my sick sister. From a distance, as I was approaching the house, I saw an unusual number of people gathered. My God, my sister just died. Oh, I can’t forgive myself. That two hundred pesos I had taken from her savings; maybe that was the reason why she was not brought to the doctor; maybe, that was the reason why she died. I refuse to imagine anything; I felt that I was just slowly melting from where I stood. I entered the house and they were looking for a white piece of cloth. It was the practice to cover the dead person’s face with a white piece of cloth; I remembered the white handkerchief. Oh, what small thing I can do but I was willing to do anything for my sister.
After the seventh day of my sister’s wake, I went back to school. I took up a five-year engineering course. I never imagined anything that would come my way, no matter how hard it was. I only knew that I have to graduate someday. Believe it or not, there were times that I was skipping meals but I don’t want to get affected. “There is no rocky hill to a man with an iron will!”. Finally, after five years, I graduated with the degree of Bachelor of Science in Agricultural Engineering.
This time, I was not thinking seriously about my ‘beautiful girl’ anymore. I still had the white handkerchief with me, though, it was no longer the usual white that it was before. In the year 2000, the first grand alumni homecoming in the high school where we graduated from was held. The first person I was expecting to see was my ‘beautiful girl’, my high school sweetheart. I really came earlier to check on everyone arriving to make sure that I would not miss her. The thrill of seeing each other after a long, long time is still there but this time it was more for curiosity’s sake. I was already almost twenty years married at this time and I was sure that she must have married also.
Many had already arrived but she was not one of them. Not being able to hold anymore, I asked our classmates. One of them said, “you still did not know that Erlinda died of leukemia a few years back?” “My God, everything in this world will certainly have its own ending,” I murmured. But why should death occur even at the wrong time. My hands slowly drifted inside my pocket to reach out for the white handkerchief. It was already having some stain but to me it was still so white as in the intention that was associated with it was so pure.
For the second time, I felt that I was melting down but I managed to keep my calm. I was unanimously chosen as the Guest Speaker from our batch. I was the next speaker and so I had to keep my composure. After my speech my classmates told me that my speech was so passionate and eloquently personal. Believe it or not, you have just read the rehash of my speech. I would love to tell everyone my real-life experience because to me it was so powerfully inspiring to people who are about to lost hope in everything they had wished for. Not in the case of someone with an iron will and enduring faith in God.
Several months later, I was called up by my brother and told me that our mother was sick. This time, I was already head of a government office. Having little extra resources, I lost not time fetching my mother. I don’t want her to miss the doctor due to my imprudence. On the way, my brother had reminded me several times that I was driving fast. We reached the hospital in due time and I was informed by the doctor that she has hypertension. There was no cause for alarm for as long as medication is maintained. I asked the doctor if we could continue the medication at home. I had a niece who just graduated from a nursing course. I asked her to delay her plan of going abroad so she could keep watch of my mother as all the children were going to school and my wife and I are working with the government. After two months, my niece finally went to work abroad as my mother was already doing well. It was then that I traveled often as required by my job.
One evening, after arriving from Cebu City, my mother requested that we have dinner together. I acceded to her request. After eating, I told her to go to sleep ahead of me as I would be watching TV. She politely acceded. After a few minutes she complained of an intense abdominal pain. I took her to my lap. She stared at me as if she was laboring hard. After few minutes, she had one final look at me as if saying, “probably, this is my last breath”. Indeed, it was. My God, how can I believe that my mother would die when she was declared fine by the doctor. As I felt like I was melting down again, I had only fervently prayed in silence. “My Lord, at last I had one final noble use for the white handkerchief; but this time, it shall rest with my mother; I had enough of its memories; please take care of all the people I have loved and whose memories were directly associated with the white handkerchief, amen.”
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Sunday, January 13, 2008
Some Options to Overcome the Impasse
On the stalled GRP-MILF negotiation:
SOME OPTIONS TO OVERCOME THE IMPASSE
Maugan Buat Mosaid, Ph.D.
Brief Background
After the Government of the Republic of the Philippines (GRP) signed the Final Peace Agreement with the Moro National Liberation Front (MNLF) on September 2, 1996, the next best and most logical thing to do is to negotiate peace with the Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF). With following and military capabilities more or less equal that of the MNLF, the GRP may have realized that its task of peace-building is never complete if there remains of the Bangsamoro a restless force that has not come to settle peace with the government.
And so on August 3, 1996 Executive Secretary Ruben Torres met MILF Vice Chairman for Political Affairs Ghadzali Jaafar in Davao and relayed the government’s desire to enter into formal negotiations with the MILF. This was followed by the meeting of the GRP and MILF Technical Committees on January 7, 1997 which marked the start of formal negotiations between the two parties. Subsequent meetings, mostly at the technical level, followed.
The MILF originally proposed nine talking points which were later clustered into six talking points. When the GRP and MILF panels met in Tripoli, Libya in June 2001, this was fine-tuned to three aspects that served as the main agenda for the peace talks. These are: 1) Security, 2) Rehabilitation and Development, and 3) Ancestral Domain. This resulted to the signing of the GRP-MILF Tripoli Agreement on Peace of 2001. Thus, the MILF had its own version of the Tripoli Agreement. If the Tripoli Agreement of 1976 served as the framework for the government’s negotiation with the MNLF, the Tripoli Agreement of 2001 served the purpose for the MILF.
The agendum on ancestral domain was further subdivided into four strands, namely: 1) General Concepts, 2) Territory, 3) Natural Resources, and 4) Governance. These four strands were discussed during the 7th exploratory talks (April 2005) and 8rh exploratory talks (September 2005) and the consensus therein shall become the framework within which both panels would be crafting the memorandum of agreement on ancestral domain.
Other Frameworks for the Negotiation
There was clear understanding between the two parties with respect to the Tripoli Agreement of 2001 but occasional misunderstandings occur when references were made on some other frameworks for the negotiation. On one hand, the GRP Panel made it a point that it negotiates on the bases of the Philippine Constitution and territorial integrity of the country. Therefore, any agreement shall pass through the usual constitutional processes and any realignment of territorial boundaries shall have to pass through a plebiscite. On the other hand, the MILF Panel insists that its claim for a Bangsamoro homeland was based on an established right to ancestral domain recognized by the Philippine constitution and quest for self-rule based on an established right to self-determination recognized under international law and a duly recognized instrument for peace by no less than the United Nations. In addition, the MILF panel insists that the government shall take into consideration some historical realities related to the Bangsamoro issues on ancestral domain and self-determination.
The following are some concepts and principles on self-determination under international law and practice (as cited by Atty. Musib M. Buat, member of the MILF Panel):
“Self-determination is not a destabilizing concept. Self-determination and democracy go hand in hand, if democracy means the rule of the people, by the people, then the people of self-determination assures that no one people may rule another – and here lies its enduring appeal” (Nadesa Satyendra, 1998);
“The right of peoples to self-determination exists as such in modern international law, with all the consequences that flow therefrom” (Hector Gross Espiell, 1980);
“All peoples have the right of self-determination. By the virtues of that right they determine the political status and freely pursue their economic, social, and cultural development” (Article 1.1: the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights, 1966).
Breakdown of Negotiation
The first major breakdown in the negotiation was on June 1, 2000. Before this, on April 27, 2000, the GRP and MILF panels met in Cotabato City to discuss ways on how to diffuse the tensions brought about by armed encounters between government and MILF forces which started in the Lanao provinces. However, at dawn of the following day the Armed Forces of the Philippines (AFP) attacked Camp Abubakar, the main camp of the MILF. Thus begun the all-out war enunciated by the Estrada administration against the MILF.
The second major impasse was during the 13th Exploratory Talks in September 2006 when both panels could not agree on the delineation and delimitation of territories that shall comprise the Bangsamoro Juridical Entity (BJE) – the more technical term for a Bangsamoro Homeland. The GRP panel would consider more or less 600 Muslim-dominated villages outside the ARMM while the MILF panel would insist for more than a thousand. These areas are over and above the present areas covered by the ARMM. The other contentious issue was the definition of contiguity.
The third major breakdown in the talks happened on December 15, 2007. Both panels were already in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia for the supposed 15th Exploratory Talks to fine-tune the consensus points on Ancestral Domain. There was no major debate expected as most of the consensus points were already settled during the 14th Exploratory Talks. All was set for the panels to initial the draft MOA which was calendared for formal signing when the talks resume in January 2008. Then, the MILF panel learned that the GRP panel had inserted in its draft of the Memorandum of Agreement the phrase “in accordance with constitutional processes”. This was vehemently opposed by the MILF panel as this was an insertion – an adulteration of the original draft of the MOA. Not being able to cleanse its copy of the draft MOA, the MILF panel decided that it is no longer feasible to face the other party in the negotiating table. Thus, the talks bumped into another impasse.
How Previous Snags in the Talks were Resolved
The circumstances, as well as the personalities and institutions involved, in the resumption of the talks are important as they give us significant lessons in the peace process. In a way, they serve to guide future actions that will have to be undertaken to put the negotiation back on track. While each particular situation may require distinct creative ways and adept means at a given time, the fundamentals of handling them remain the same.
The first parting of ways in the negotiation was caused by the government’s violation of the ceasefire agreement. Apparently, the government’s armed forces did not give much credence to its peace panel when, despite some consensus reached to diffuse the tension brought about by the armed confrontation that started in the Lanao provinces, it proceeded to attack Camp Abubakar at dawn of June 2, 2000. Immediately, thereafter, the MILF disbanded its panel and withdrew from the talks.
When Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo assumed the Presidency in 2001, she sought the assistance of Prime Minister Mahathir to convince the MILF to go back to the negotiation table. After a series of trips by the Malaysian emissaries to the Islamic Center in Camp Rajahmuda, MILF Chair Hashim Salamat agreed to resume talks with the government.
The second impasse was primarily caused by some technicalities in the matter of interpretation of delineation and delimitation of areas that will comprise the Bangsamoro Juridical Entity including some ambiguity on the definition of contiguity.
This time (2004), the coming in of a third party (country) monitoring team composed of representatives from Malaysia, Brunei and Libya was an added dimension. The ‘back-channeling’ efforts from both parties to revive the negotiation was minimized as this was replaced by the so-called ‘shuttle diplomacy’ employed by Malaysia, in particular, as a creative means of convincing the parties to go back to the negotiating table. After a series of shuttling down to Manila and Camp Darapanan, the Parties agreed to attend the 14th Exploratory Talks in November 2007. That proved to be very fruitful as some 29 consensus points, mostly on ancestral domain, were settled.
Then, the 15th Exploratory Talks was set December 15-17 in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. The MILF panel was in high spirits as it was more of a formality like initialing the draft MOA than talking because everything on ancestral domain had been settled during the previous exploratory talk. Then the MILF panel learned that the GRP panel’s copy of the draft MOA contained the phrase “in accordance with constitutional processes” which it vehemently objected to the point that it did not enter the negotiating room when the GRP panel failed to cleanse its copy. And so the talks bumped into another impasse.
This time the breakdown in negotiation was the making of the GRP panel as obviously influenced by the so-called ‘spoilers’ of the talks. These are people, alleged by the MILF, as well-entrenched in power and having strong influence in national policy and decision-making. They are also thought to be people of the cabinet cluster “E” or the national security cluster.
The Bone of Contentions
First, let us examine the obstructing mechanisms both legal, traditional, historical and behavioral on the part of both parties. Then let us fit them against the facilitating mechanisms in the same aspects and see if some adjustments are possible without causing major shifts in terms of positions or positioning espoused by both parties.
The MILF insisted that the claim for a ‘Bangsamoro Homeland’ is based on an established right to ancestral domain as well as the claim for ‘self-rule’ based on an established right to self-determination. However, some people in government commented that the MILF’s claim for ancestral domain based on some historical antecedents is no longer plausible or logical. So, the first bone of contention, it seems, is the relevance of historical antecedents to the claim for ancestral domain. In our view, the issue of historical relevance would not have been an issue at all because the Philippine Constitution of 1987 recognizes ancestral domain as one of the bases for recognizing minority rights in the Philippines. On this basis alone, the Bangsamoro claim for ancestral domain can be accommodated under the Philippine Constitution in much the same way as the Indigenous Peoples Rights Act (IPRA) passed by Congress was anchored on the same principle.
The Philippine Constitution of 1987 recognizes the right of self determination (Art. II, section 7, on State Policies) but unfortunately it has its limiting mechanisms such as the principles of national sovereignty and territorial integrity. One of the justifications for the Philippine’s claim of territorial integrity, with particular reference to historic rights under the 1935 Constitution, was the foreign treaties entered into by the Moro suzerains.
The same Constitution under Article II, Section 1 on Declaration of Principles “…adopts the generally accepted principles of international law as part of the law of the land and adheres to the policy of peace, equality, justice, freedom, cooperation, unity with all nations.” This is another restricted principle under the Philippine constitution. As interpreted by the Supreme Court, treaties entered into by the Philippines have the same category as domestic laws and as such like any legislation enacted by Congress, these treaties could be amended. This interpretation runs counter to the principle of pacta sunt servanda whereby the state parties are duty bound to honor their treaty obligations under treaties entered into. Thus, the Supreme Court, in the Bayan case when the constitutionality of the VFA was raised, sustained the principle of pacta sunt servanda under international law. This was the reason why the MILF Peace Panel during the resumption of he peace talks in Tripoli, Libya registered its objection to use the Philippine constitution as the framework of negotiation. The MILF Panel preferred the adherence by the Parties on International Humanitarian Law (IHL) and the internationally recognized Human Rights instruments in defining the relations between the Philippine Government and the Bangsamoro people with respect, among others, to their fundamental right to determine their future political status, which specifically refers to the right to self-determination (Atty. Musib M. Buat, 2007: Right to Self Determination).
As early as April 2005, the Government of Republic of the Philippines (GRP) through its peace panel, has offered the Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF) a federal state but the latter rejected it, saying the government is not in a position to offer much less grant it. The offer was contained in a document submitted to the MILF peace panel during the 7th GRP-MILF Exploratory Talks in Guoman, Port Dickson, Selangor, Malaysia.
However, the MILF’s rejection of the offer of a federal state should be put to context. The MILF viewed this as a ‘trick’. Knowing the propensity of the GRP panel to invoke the constitution whenever confronted with issues of constitutional concerns, how can the government grant something that is non-existent in the constitution? It means that the offer is only as good as when the constitution is amended and the form of government changed. Otherwise, this is tantamount to having made no offer at all. With the present Senate, any proposal to amend the constitution is next to impossible; at least, not before 2010. Must we wait after 2010 for the talks to resume? While this is possible, the danger of prolonged negotiation is the so-called ‘negotiation fatigue’.
From the looks of it, the MILF would stand pat on its position to pursue the so-called Bangsamoro Juridical Entity (BJE) with all presently-Muslim-dominated villages in Mindanao to compose it and have it governed by the shariah. Defining the extent of the BJE, although already a contentious issue, would not be as complicated as implementing the shariah en toto in this part of the country. Physical mutilation, under the shariah, is allowed as a form of punishment but same is not allowed under the Philippine Constitution. This was the reason why the so-called shariah being implemented under Presidential Decree No. 1086 was only limited in its application to Muslim personal laws (civil law) such as family relations, inheritance and succession.
Is there a Way to Meet Half-Way?
Maybe there is, maybe none. It all depends on the two sides whether they agree to a solution. Maybe the first option is to meet half-way or examine the primary agenda in the negotiation if it is possible to make some adjustments to meet half-way. By this, we mean that both parties are willing to drop some to gain some. For example, the primary reason why negotiation between the GRP and the MILF was made possible was because the GRP offered not to use the Philippine constitution as the benchmark for the negotiation which the MILF reciprocated by dropping the issue of independence as one of the subjects for negotiation.
The primary issue has been whether or not the GRP would allow some extra-constitutional means to address the issues surrounding the negotiation. Whether this is settled or not, there is still a way out so that negotiations don’t get stuck to where it has bunged. For example, determining the extent of the territorial boundary of the proposed Bangsamoro Juridical Entity (BJE) should not be a problem because it was already clear that only presently-Muslim-dominated villages would be absorbed into the BJE. If we are to assume that no Bangsamoro is opposed to the MILF-sponsored idea of creating the BJE, then a plebiscite or referendum becomes moot and academic.
Second, if we take recent pronouncements from the GRP and the MILF, there seems to be some reasons to be optimistic for the talks to resume. Muhammad Ameen, chairperson of the MILF Central Committee Secretariat, stressed the need to correct false impression or accusation that the MILF does not want the government to undertake constitutional processes to implement any peace deal with the MILF. He said “the government can undertake all constitutional processes it wants, provided [it does] not derogate what the Parties have jointly ‘crafted, agreed and signed’ in the negotiations. He stressed further that what the MILF cannot agree to is that it takes part in those constitutional processes, citing six reasons for it:
1. All negotiations to resolve sovereignty-based conflicts all over the world such as those in Kosovo , Ireland , Bougainville, Aceh , Sudan , Western Sahara , and many others are extra-constitutional in character. The one with the MILF is not an exception;
2. The MILF is a revolutionary organization, or in plain words, a rebel, which necessarily does not recognize the Philippine Constitution; otherwise, to do so would be tantamount to agreeing to become and [be] considered “criminals”;
3. The Philippine Constitution represents the interests of the majority, who are Christians, short-changing or undermining that of the Moros and other indigenous tribes. The Constitution always favors the greatest majority, because they were the framers, interpreters, and implementers;
4. To allow itself to be bound by constitutional process, aside from the foregoing reasons, the MILF virtually allows itself at the tyranny of the Philippine Government in [the] matter of interpretation and implementation of any peace deal;
5. The MILF will not and will never repeat the blunders committed by the MNLF and Chairman Nur Misuari of negotiating within the framework of the Philippine Constitution. After more than ten years since the signing of the GRP-MNLF Final Agreement in 1996, the MNLF and Nur Misuari are back to square one as far as the genuine resolution of the Moro Problem is concerned. Instead of giving genuine self-governance to the Bangsamoro People, they are being integrated into the national body politic, reminiscent of the government approach in the 50s and 60s; and
Today, there are enough models of resolving sovereignty-based conflicts which the government and the MILF can study and possibly adopt any of the appropriate model to the satisfaction of the Parties and other stake-holders. The international community must play an active role in this undertaking.
Third, the issue of whether or not the MILF gained some semblance of ‘status of belligerency’ keeps coming back. The mere fact that the GRP had initiated a formal negotiation between the Philippine state and the MILF is an affirmation of this reality. Negotiation of this breadth and specter necessitates that there must be at least two parties of equal footing facing each other on the negotiating table. While recognizing a status of belligerency for the MILF, the Philippine government can maintain that the issues or problems are internal in nature and sovereign in character. When the MILF agreed to drop the issue of independence, the territorial integrity of the country was already assured.
Fourth, the GRP, in initiating the formal negotiation, has already set aside the Philippine constitution as benchmark for the negotiation which the MILF reciprocated by dropping independence as one of the subjects of the talks. The ball is clearly in the hands of the GRP panel. The moment it goes back to re-assume its original position, negotiation can proceed anytime.
Fifth, apparently what is lacking in this case is a strong political will on the part of government and principled negotiation from both sides. What is obvious is a case of lackadaisical attitude on the part of government and maybe occasional enthusiasm that only shows every-time there is an impasse. On the part of the MILF, some extra effort to stretch its patience will help. For example, while the GRP panel’s copy of the draft MOA on ancestral domain was adulterated by a proposal to subject it to ‘constitutional process’, the MILF panel could have tried to do some bargaining efforts as in ‘hit and miss’ kind of thing. Having tried would have mattered more than not having tried at all.
Lastly, it might help to reconstitute the membership of the GRP panel. Secretary Eduardo Ermita was not able to bring the GRP-MNLF negotiation to a conclusion. It was Ambassador Manuel Yan who had successfully brought the negotiation to a close. This time, some quarters are beginning to doubt Secretary Rodolfo Garcia’s ability to steer the GRP-MILF talks to its conclusive phase.
What made the difference, if any, among these people? Well, all of them were former military men, except that Manuel Yan was a military-man-turned-diplomat. Diplomats have greater advantage in the art of negotiating than military men who had not experienced the art of diplomacy. If we are to take this notion, then Ambassador Roy Cimatu makes a good replacement for Secretary Rodolfo Garcia. Also, instead of Secretary Nasser Pangandaman, somebody else, a prominent lawyer who would, in a way, represent the ARMM, shall be allowed to replace him. The MILF might, also, consider reconstituting its panel of negotiators. While it may be argued that the negotiators are not the problem, bringing in some fresh minds into the negotiation may help as some of the old buddies may have already been experiencing negotiation fatigue.
Presently, the government Peace Panel is composed of Secretary Rodolfo Garcia (ret. Gen.), Prof. Rudy Rodil, Atty. Leah Armamento, Atty. Sedfrey Candelaria, Sylvia Paraguya, Secretary Nasser Pangandaman and Ryan Mark Sullivan.
On the MILF side are Mohagher Iqbal, Atty. Lanang Ali, Atty. Michael Mastura, Atty. Musib Buat, Maulana Alonto, and Abdulla Camlian, head of the MILF Technical Committee. Also with the group are Mike Pasigan, Amor Pendaliday, and Mohajirin Ali.
For principled negotiation and determined negotiators, any conceivable means is worth trying and all possible options are worth considering, if only to make it proceed. The talks, for whatever level it has reached, has already achieved so much that nobody could imagine such gains would go to naught because nobody tried enough to salvage it from vanishing into, probably, oblivion.
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